This guy totally sold me. We had been trying to get with him ever since I met him last year. He was very sweet, intelligent and funny; unlike a lot of the guys I meet here in the deep south. Unfortunately for both of us, life has its demands and we never seemed to be able to find the time to get together. But that’s all changed. We finally got him over to the house for drinks. Those drinks turned into wonderful conversation. He had me laughing and chatting for so long that Kai finally had to give me that nod that said it was getting too late for talk. I sent him off to get the bedroom ready while I got comfortable with this guy, who I’ll just call K. There’s something so exciting about getting friendly with a guy right out in our livingroom while my husband is in our bedroom, getting the cameras set up, the candles lit and the army of pillows off the bed. It’s dirty….and I love it. I love kissing and K was a wonderful kisser. We could have spent hours on the couch simply exchanging light kisses, working toward the deeper, hotter type that gets me really charged up. No matter how long I could have stayed there, kissing, I also wanted to get fucked and put a show on for Kai, so I grabbed K’s hand and led him to the bedroom. We were on the bed so quickly, tearing clothes off each other while Kai was getting towels and all that stuff he does to allow the guy a little bit of time to get to “know me.” By the time Kai came back into the bedroom, we were already naked with K’s cock in my mouth. I wish I could have seen Kai’s face when he walked in on that but I was enjoying the cock too much. …..still thinking about K now. #YUM!! Xoxoxxx,Rachel
What can a girl say? Last week started with me and Kai meeting a guy for coffee. He was a little too country for me at the outset but his charm grew on me as we talked. In addition to that, he was in good shape and cute and looked about five years under his claimed age. He struck that right balance between being a mature man and a young stud.
The week ended with me having coffee, alone, with a very hot man from about an hour away from where we live. He is a pilot, recently divorced and looking for fun. Rarely, on first dates, do I spend a lot of time with these guys—there’s just too many of them and only one of me, after all. This guy was different though; there was a kindness, maturity and soft-spoken nature that just appealed to me immediately. Within an hour I was texting Kai to see if he could join this guy, who I’ll call Eric, and me at a local restaurant for drinks and dinner. I couldn’t believe this guy had this much of my attention. Kai couldn’t join us because of work but he didn’t stop Eric and I for going out to eat.
So, I’d known this guy for all of two hours and was already going out on a date with him. Before I knew it Kai was texting, asking if I was okay. Another two hours had passed! Conversation with him was so easy! He walked me to my car like a gentleman and I did something I don’t do that often; I leaned in for a kiss, opened my mouth and let him explore my mouth with his tongue. Right there in the parking lot, only miles from my house, where people know me, I was so taken by his charm that I had no problem allowing him access to my mouth. We kissed for an exciting minute before we relinquished our mutual hold on each other and said our goodnights.
I was still thinking of Eric the next night when we had an old friend over for a round of fun….but I’ll share that story later, after we get the pics edited by our friend.
First, we know we have to get better about posting here. Life is just so crazy and it’s difficult to keep this up to date–especially since we haven’t found a benefactor who is willing to use our ‘donate’ button on our Donations page to keep us doing this more full-time :). Like the adage says, you get what you pay for. Any ways, we’ll try to be better about updating and sharing.
On a fun note; we are looking forward to a couple of weekends of fun in Atlanta over the next few upcoming weekends.
Fortunately, we have had the pleasure of meeting some grounded, normal couples who understand what the lifestyle is all about. They are adults who act like adults and can be respectful and private…..and they are people who know how to party.
We aren’t giving up on the hotwife lifestyle by any stretch of the imagination but we are definitely enjoying the different dynamic of adding couples to our party mix. The problem, of course, is that when you start playing with guys AND their wives, the camera typically needs to be tucked away and makes sharing those moments with you all nearly impossible.
Our New Years Eve was spent in a hotel ballroom with about 60 naked couples and that was simply a whole lot of fun. In a few weeks we’re going to ATL to hang with some friends and friends of friends for an entire weekend of misbehaving. Two weeks after that we’re going to a hotel take-over. So, the forecast for the next month looks to be full of skin and sweat — and we’re definitely looking forward to it!
To all of our swinging friends–best wishes on your playtime. To the non-swingers, may you find happiness…..and someone to swing with—it really can be a liberating experience so embrace it if you get the chance.
Hey all; it’s the Southern MILF, Rachel and Kai again. A lot of people have been complimenting us for our adventures this summer, and we thank you.
In case you aren’t aware of what is going on with us, Rachel has been out of town all summer, working a project in another state. Before leaving we agreed that both of us could take lovers for the summer. As you might guess, being in the south it is very difficult to find women to take as a lover who don’t want shit in return beyond friendship and some nice nights out. Rachel, however, surprisingly faced challenges as well.
The summer crew is relatively large, with a good number of eligible (and ineligible) men to chose from. We worked closely for weeks to incrementally intensify her flirting to posture any one of the guys (or more) to feel comfortable approaching a married woman.
We have gotten a lot of favorable feedback about our adventures. Most people who have talked to us enjoy what we’re doing and what we’re sharing. Some of you may not though and we just want to take a few moments to help everyone understand why we do what we do and what it has done for our marriage.
As a husband you have a to be VERY secure in who you are as a man and a husband in order for this to work. You have to explicitly trust your wife in every action and thought she does/has. A single moment of doubt from you and she will likely cease any such activities. If you cannot explicitly trust your wife….DO NOT DO THIS. Wife, if you cannot walk that fine line between fantasy fulfillment and respect for your husband…DO NOT DO THIS.
In many ways the woman in this scenario has all of the work to do. Sure, she gets the pleasure of being allowed to take a new lover and to enjoy all of that comes with this exploration; but the woman has to keep that constant mental balance between satisfying her needs, the needs of her lover and, most importantly, the needs of her husband.
There is a lot of work when pursuing this fantasy. You will likely not be able to talk ENOUGH. Very clear expectation-setting is needed if this (and your relationship) are going to successfully experience all that this can bring. Without clearly delineating what those expectations are and BOTH agreeing to them, the fantasy is doomed to fail….and, sometimes, at great cost to the couple.
‘So why do it’, some may ask. It’s a smart question. Instead of diving willy-nilly into this situation any couple pursuing needs to ask themselves that question. Why do it? No one can answer but themselves. For us, we primarily swing with straight men…..we both enjoy the thrill of her playing with other men or a group of men. This is an extension of that with an element of risk/danger, even though this risk is more pseudo than real. We enjoy the “danger” of her having a boyfriend; we call it the “affair aspect”. There is something extremely exciting to both of us that she goes on dates with him, buy lingerie for him, visits him at his place, fucks him exclusively, etc.
Sure, it’s not something for everything. In fact, of the swingers we’ve we are definitely in the minority, but that’s okay with us. We do not judge other’s preferences, so we’d hope for the same respect on ours. We enjoy it and we are not harming anyone.
This adventure is only just beginning for the Southern MILF.
Rachel called, moaning. It seems that they haven’t even left the room to get lunch yet. She promised to call as soon as possible and that meant when she was just down to her panties.
As I listened he ate her to orgasm and she immediately went down on him. The sexual tension had them acting like teenagers. To hear your wife moaning, with the distinct slurping sounds of a wet blowjob, is very powerful. I could have cum right there, listening to them.
She sucked him for no longer than a minute or two before she told me that she needed to fuck him bad. There was slight rustling in the background and I told her to tell me when he was inside her.
She said, “he already is!” Her moaning picked up instantly.
She came within another minute or two, making that two orgasms in about five minutes!!!
I heard her ask, “do you want to switch to doggie?” They did and that’s when I heard the sounds of their hips slapping together. It was too much for me, I blew a load then and there.
They are getting something to eat and then heading back to the room for another round of what may be many.
Rachel just called. She just dropped her bags and was expecting to go get something to eat so they could talk. She said that C threw her on the bed and was on top of her in an instant and they started making out right away; with the promise that he would take her somewhere to eat after he got to eat her.
With a promise that she would call once he got her naked, she said ‘bye, I’m going back to making out’.
So much fun!
Rachel is finishing getting ready for her old friend, C. We’ve done our talking for the morning and now she is off to prepare herself for another man. They’ve been texting logistical “stuff”, so nothing too sexy, but I did enjoy this two-text exchange:
C: I am very excited to see you. So, how long do I have you for?
Rachel: I’m excited too. You have me until tomorrow!
As a husband, her response is very powerful. She is willingly “giving” herself to another man, in another city, in another state, and promising him the entire day and evening while I hold down the homefront.
Rachel, the Southern MILF, is waking as we speak & getting ready to check out of her hotel and head across town to meet up with her long-time friend, C. I am so excited, as is she, for this new type of adventure! Let the fun begin!!